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About "Neutrals"


Neutrals are people who enter into a process, conversation or a conflict without bias towards a particular opinion or point of view. Among the skills neutrals bring to the table is their ability to listen well. They become the "ears" in the conflict because real listening is one of the first casualties in conflict. A good Neutral makes no assumptions and is a master of asking questions and making non-evaluative observations.

Neutrals go by many names and serve different situations and needs:

Decision Making/Advisory processes: a neutral is engaged in a conflict in lieu of litigation and they are officially charged with advising or determining outcome in legal matters. Arbitrators and Early Neutral Evaluators are neutrals that fall into this category.

Mediation for Settlement : a Mediator is engaged to help participants come to their own decisions and agreements about how to settle matters after a relationship has broken down, as an alternative to court litigation. Some mediators have started calling this "back end" mediation - it's about cleaning up the fall out after a relationship has failed.

Mediation for Relationships: a Mediator is engaged to prevent a conflict from escalating and to restore or strengthen a relationship. Some mediators have started calling this "front end" mediation - it's about trying to reconcile differences before a relationship is lost.

Facilitation: a facilitator is engaged to help a group by guiding the group's process. Within those processes they can attend to strengthening communication skills, developing team norms and creating the space for open and honest dialogue.

Interdependence Day is focused on mediation
and facilitated dialogue.


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